Distinction Between Pure Love and Desiring Sense Gratification
The distinction between material bondage and spiritual liberation rests entirely on the quality of one's desires. This article explores Śrīla Prabhupāda's teachings on how the living entity's propensity to desire can be transformed from a cause of suffering into the path of perfection. By understanding the subtle difference between gratifying one's own senses and serving the Supreme, one can attain the platform of pure love.
Nature of Material Desire
Material existence is fueled by the living entity's desire to enjoy separately from the Lord. Śrīla Prabhupāda defines material life not by the presence of objects or activities, but by the underlying intent to gratify one's personal senses. This selfish motivation creates a cycle of action and reaction that keeps the soul bound to the material world.
- Material life means - when you desire to gratify your senses, that is material life. And when you desire to serve God, that is spiritual life. That is the difference between material life and spiritual life. Now we are trying to serve our senses.
- All desires within this material world are sinful because material desire means sense gratification, which always involves action that is more or less sinful.
- According to Vaisnava philosophy, when a living entity desires to gratify his senses and forgets the service of the Lord, he is given a place in the material world to act freely according to his desire.
- Material existence begins with the illusioned bodily conception of life, and on the basis of this conception there ensues a series of unwanted things (anarthas). These unwanted things are actually mental desires for various types of sense gratification.
Illusion of Satisfaction
The pursuit of sense gratification is often mistaken for happiness, but it inevitably leads to dissatisfaction and conflict. When one's happiness is dependent on the flickering nature of the senses, even great accumulation of wealth or power cannot bring peace. True satisfaction is impossible on the material platform because the soul's nature is spiritual.
- As long as there is the slightest tinge of sense gratification or desire for sense gratification, peace will remain far, far away. This is because by nature we're all eternal servants of the SG & therefore cannot enjoy anything for our personal interests.
- One may increase his ambition for sense gratification and even achieve what he desires for the gratification of his senses, but because this is on the material platform, he will never achieve satisfaction and contentment.
- When strong lusty desires for sense gratification are unfulfilled, one becomes angry. This anger can be satisfied when one chastises his enemy.
True Renunciation and Freedom
To become free from material bondage, one must not attempt to kill desire—which is impossible for a living being—but rather purify it. A Kṛṣṇa conscious person appears to act like an ordinary human being, but their internal consciousness is free from personal interest. By engaging the senses in the service of the Lord, the devotee attains a state of desirelessness known as anyābhilāṣitā-śūnyam.
- To become desireless means not to desire anything for sense gratification. In other words, desire for becoming Krsna conscious is actually desirelessness.
- Desire cannot be negated, but in devotional service the desire is changed only for the service of the Lord in place of desire for sense gratification.
- A Krsna conscious man - one who has lost all inclinations for material sense gratification, although the desires are present.
- A Krsna conscious person is always dovetailed with the supreme desire, for he has no desire for personal sense gratification. He moves exactly like a part of a machine.
Definition of Pure Love
The ultimate distinction lies between kāma (lust) and prema (love). While lust is the drive to please one's own senses, pure love is the unalloyed desire to please Kṛṣṇa's senses. The residents of Vṛndāvana exemplify this perfection; they have no concept of personal happiness separate from the happiness of the Lord.
- The desire to gratify one's own senses is kama (lust), but the desire to please the senses of Lord Krsna is prema (love).
- Lusty desire' refers to the desire to gratify one's personal senses, and 'transcendental desire' refers to the desire for serving the senses of the Lord.
- Among the gopis, there is not a pinch of desire for sense gratification. Their only desire is to give pleasure to Krsna, and this is why they mingle with Him and enjoy with Him.
- Which we are accepting as love, that is simply a desire for sense gratification. That is not love.
Conclusion
The journey from material entanglement to spiritual liberation is a journey of transforming desire. As long as the living entity seeks to exploit the material world for personal sense gratification, they remain bound by the laws of nature and the cycle of birth and death. However, by replacing the desire for self-enjoyment with the desire to serve Kṛṣṇa, one enters the realm of pure love. In this state, the senses are not repressed but are fully engaged in their constitutional function, bringing the soul to its ultimate platform of eternal peace and bliss.
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